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Originally Posted by
iluvmybaby
If you love your granddaughter, and your son also does, what would DNA matter? If you HAVE to have the DNA test, do it....but I think if you already have established feelings for the child, DNA and paternity would not matter, as long as I loved the child
The child has not actually been born yet. I do have "established" feelings for her just as any grandmother would awaiting the birth of their grandchild. But, some things she is saying and doing now lead us to think that there is a SLIGHT chance my DS my not actually be the father. We want a DNA to prove it for sure one way or the other. Why pay a lawyer, go to court and fight for a child that we actually have no legal rights to if DNA proves he is not the father.
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12-27-2009 10:00 PM
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When is she due? That would be a sure indicator (besides DNA) of your son possibly being the father. If they only had a one night stand, the window of opportunity should be a very small one. Does he know the date of this "drunken night?"
Maybe she was given a different due date than what she had calculated, did the math, and decided she wasnt his. When did all the problems start? Before or after he went back to his girlfriend? If after, maybe she was trying to hook him, and with the girlfriend back in the picture she lost hope. Is it possible the girlfriend might have said something to her or does she even know about the baby?
Last edited by Quaker_Parrots; 12-28-2009 at 06:07 PM.
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Thank you, jonette for your kinds words. This has been the hardest thing I have ever been through. I just don't understand why some mothers don't want everyone to love their child, but they don't. Some don't understand that there is different kinds of love, and are afraid that the child will love someone more than them. I think that is the case with my Grandbabys mom. I hope things work out for you jonette. When the mom wants child support, then she will come around. God Bless
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