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    Why is it that most always it is someone in your family that is always there to put the screws to you. "shaking head". I sure do feel for you. If it was anyone else but your own father!!!!

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    I'm so sorry. You have certainly had the worse luck.

    Don't make it easy for him...I'd make him go through process of evicting you.

    On second thought...I wouldn't stoop to his level.
    Never argue with an idiot. It will bring you down to his level and he’ll win because of experience.

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    i'm so sorry Lynn!! ((hugs))

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    I don't have any advice, but wanted to pop in and give you {{{HUGS}}}

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    Wow, sorry to hear this. Have you tried talking to him about this? Maybe offer to pay a small amount of rent to him. If he goes for that get it in writing though.
    Good luck.

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    Check in your state -- see if verbal agreements are legally binding. You might also want to check with an attorney... have you been paying "rent" to your dad for the house?

    Whether yes or no, you might want to look into the laws regarding tenancy..especially if you are NOT paying rent.

    Who has paid the property taxes on the house since you have been living there? If your father is the one paying those things, then you might not have much hope...but if you research it, you might feel a little better.

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    I can't believe this. {{{{Lynn}}}} my heart truly goes out to you, you've been through so much and you deserved to be happy and able to do things to better yourself. I really hope that you don't have to give up starting school and I agree w/ another poster, see if maybe you can buy it. I wasn't sure if you were paying your dad rent for the home or not, but if you were maybe the mortgage wouldn't be more than the rent. I'm so sorry, he does sound very selfish.. especially buying your cousin a car and then kicking his own dd out on the streets. {{{{Lynn}}}}
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    the only way i can buy it is contract to deed with him and he refuses. i've already tried that. he says he needs the money all at once "for his dr bills".. whatever. My credit is shot thanks to the bankruptcy when i got divorced and the crap him and his new woman pulled with the credit cards.

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    I wish there was something I could do to help you, you don't deserve all this crap you've had to go through. *shakes head* I'm just at a loss right now for you.
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    Oh, this is so like my Mama, just flat out MEAN, and I hate to admit it, but your Daddy sounds just the same, like they had a "trick in thier sleeves", I hate him for you..I am so sorry, and I mean this, I have been there in different ways, one day things are great, next day..IT IS NOT.
    And unfair and it is HIS and you got, F*CKED, and I know how you feel, hpw betrayed and angry you feel.
    This is not to make you feel better, rather I am on your side.
    Life s*cks, and it isn't fair, but I will pray for you.
    This is just crap A** family politics, and I know how you feel.
    Major HUGS to you, you deserve better and you deserved an honest answer years ago, and to be fair, what ever ends up happening, your Daddy has to answer, if you are believing in G-D, and he might just get his own, and that is horrid to say, but I want you to feel vindicated in saying what you are saying, moving your self, the kids and starting all over, I feel it is fair you get to say , " I HATE HIM"...
    I send an extra hug..

    At last....my love has come around..

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    Hugs and more hugs....
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