Thread: How do you forgive someone?

to the op
forgiveness can be very hard,and i believe each and everyone of us has gone through something in our lives,where we need to forgive,or someone needs to forgive us
it isnt easy
here is what i do,after days or months of thinking about what has been done to me,i forgive whomever it is,but i dont forget,what they did,so i try my hardest to stay away from anyone who likes hurting people,or who thrives on the drama of hurting people.jmoho

If you post your family problems here, why be upset if people are curious about it? You are opening yourself up to positive and negative advice. That's what happens on forums.

Originally Posted by n2space

I've read your posts like everyone else here. You've been complaining about your family for years. Everyone has read it. Like so many here I can't understand why you don't put a stop to it instead of complaining about it a lot. Most people would not let this go as long as you have. It seems like you are doing this for attention since you refuse to take everyone's advice. But, it's your life, if that's the way you want to live it. Good luck to you. I hope it all works out for you.

Well it seems to me you've done your share of complaining about familes and neighbors so whats your point. I still would like to know why you're so interested in me and my family. No one else has started a thread asking specifically about my family but you. And since you just joined in September of last year how do you know I've been complaining for years.

I'm not interested in your family personally. I'm just replying to all the posts you've made about them. You make it seem so grim anyone would wonder why you talk to them. If you want to continue living that way, do it. But, you opened this up for everyone to read about.

Originally Posted by ilovecats

I agree,I noticed this a long time ago.Seems like someone is obsessed with you.

Me too. It seems like n2space is very familiar with gmyers situation and frequently brings it up or says things alluding to it. I don't at all think gmyers complains to get attention. I think she just sometimes needs someone to talk to about her problems as we all do. n2space, it seems to me like the majority of your posts are complaints so why get in a huff at gmyers. Maybe you should be more concerned with yourself and less so about her.

When I started posting on this forum, gmyers was talking about all the bad things her family was doing to her. I was going through the same thing with my cousin at the time and thought I could help her. My cousin died before I could work things out with her. I guess that made me fell sorry for gmyers and was trying to be friendly and let her know someone else was going through the same thing. If you read my past posts, I was trying to encourage her, but somehow it turned to being obsessed. The reason I said about her doing this to get attention is my cousin did this. She would complain about people doing things to her but not stay away from them. My mom always said she was lonely and complained to get attention. I will no longer post about you gmyers. I hope you have a great life and your family treats you better.