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    Re: GED's and Diplomas

    I am still in this from my non-traditional homeschool education stand point. I HAD to read literature, HAD to study foreign language AND had to have Biblical points also. I dont feel as though I am any better or any worse than anyone else. Judgement isnt fair from either side, but I do feel like I got a proper education without being in a school environment.
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    APPLAUDS Furgy!!!!! {{{{{{CLAPS}}}}}} Im truly amazed and you deserve those high honors. Congratulations!!! TRULY!!
    That right there is exactly what Im talking about!! You truly deserve that Furgy!!

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    Furgy~ You owe no one an explantation sweetie.......Do what ya gotta do to get that education and CYA!

    People need to start worrying about thier own a$$es before smacking on others!!!!
    GED/Diploma......they all get you a better place in life no matter how ya got them or when ya got it .....ok enough!
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    5 days a week for 6 hours a day for 2.5 months as compared to 5 days a week for 8 hours a day for 4 years? Not an equal education. And it is not fair that someone who finished school, tried as hard as they could to make good grades, who may not be as smart as some others but keeps trying cannot receive an all expenses paid higher education that someone who may be smarter but did not work as hard can receive. I am sure that you did work hard and overcome many adversities, but so did many others and they graduated in spite of it. This is not a slam against you or anyone else, it is just an opinion and it is how I feel on the subject. We will just have to agree to disagree.

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    Furgy, I just want to let you know that you are a role model for me and others. I will be taking classes in the fall and working my tail off to get my GED. Things happened that I had no control over and I had to leave school. Since then I have been busy being mom and just living life day by day. I realize now that I need to go back for me as much for my kids. Thank you Furgy for sharing your strength and I am proud of you for your hardwork. You deserve the scholarship! WoooHooo!!! I only hope that I can do as well as you. (((Hugs)))
    All of you who have gone back and gotten your GED have my respect. You earned that just as much as anyone else who graduated, if not more. JMO
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    Furgy...you should be commended for being a wonderful role model.

    I don't know why one should be considered better than another. To use the OP's analogy by going one step further...her high school diploma should be better than say...a classmate who grew up in a picture perfect home. After all...the OP had lots of personal issues going on and she continued to do well in school. The aforementioned classmate didn't have any struggles...so her diploma doesn't mean as much.

    That's just silly as well as illogical.

    People from all backgrounds and lifestyles will all receive the same diploma. The diploma doesn't differentiate between those who worked their bu##'s off to succeed and those who did the bare minimum to get by. The only difference with that piece of paper is the name on it!

    The OP said that "a high school diploma and a GED should not be considered equal certificates". I agree...a GED should be considered better!!! (Actually...I am being sarcastic...) My point is that why shouldn't they? You have people with entirely different grades and school histories getting the same high school diploma.

    When I got my Master's Degree, I was in a program designed for working adults! I worked my a$$ off and graduated with a 3.92 average. There was an older classmate who did just what was required to stay in the master's program.

    You know what...we ended up with the same piece of paper. Is that fair? Who cares? Life's not fair. Maturity is understanding that point!

    Also...maturity is also understanding that we can't begin to compare our circumstances to other's. It is a individual and personal thing.
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    How is it not a slam against others? You are acting like anybody who didnt do exactly as you is not as good as you.
    I dont think you are actually listening to what anyone else is actually saying. I dont hear one legitimate reason as to why someone who finishes high school is better than someone who gets their GED. THATS EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE SAYING. You cannot have it both ways saying you're not slamming them then in the next sentence saying BUT.....I feel IM BETTER.

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    Quote Originally Posted by reckless
    5 days a week for 6 hours a day for 2.5 months as compared to 5 days a week for 8 hours a day for 4 years? Not an equal education. And it is not fair that someone who finished school, tried as hard as they could to make good grades, who may not be as smart as some others but keeps trying cannot receive an all expenses paid higher education that someone who may be smarter but did not work as hard can receive. I am sure that you did work hard and overcome many adversities, but so did many others and they graduated in spite of it. This is not a slam against you or anyone else, it is just an opinion and it is how I feel on the subject. We will just have to agree to disagree.
    My younger sister went to school through 11th grade. We moved from Pennsylvania to Colorado right before her senior year. She went straight to work as a nurses aid and then went back and got her GED.

    I don't think my diploma is worth more than my younger sisters GED. She worked every bit as hard as I did, we just didn't move until after I had already graduated.
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    "but school is designed to educate us in things that we might not learn at home. Just because you can read and write does not mean that you would necessarily read classic literature as you are required to do in school, you would not have to actually think about the true meaning if it were not for book reports or essays that expand your mind. Were you required to read any literature in order to pass your exam?"

    Pass an exam? Ok,when I was in High school I had no desire nor the intellect to read classic literature,and for the most part to read anything.I do now because life has taught me to understand what I am reading,to read with meaning ,to understand the depth of the words themselves.I barely graduated by the skin of my teeth,I didn't even have a 2.0.So,I guess if you call graduating with less than a 2.0 an accomplishment,so be it. If I would have waited to go back to school,I would have went to an adult education class myself (by choice) Luckily I went and busted my ass to do what needed to be done.I knew I could not skate through college like I had in high school.How many High school students do you know who can read Macbeth or any other of Shakespeare's classics?

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    Re: GED's and Diplomas

    Quote Originally Posted by reckless
    Someone posted a thread earlier about receiving her GED and stated that if she scored high enough, she would receive an honors diploma and have her continuing education paid for. Not to start a controversy, but how does everyone think about this?

    I feel that going back to get your GEd is wonderful, everyone who didn't have the opportunity to complete high school should do it. However, I don't feel that a GED and a high school diploma should be considered equal certificates. People who actually go to school the whole 12 years and graduate should not have their diploma on par with someone who quit school, goes to a few classes later in life and is made to take an exam that most anyone could pass and then receives a certificate that most employers consider the same as a diploma.

    What is the point of even going to high school if you can just quit and then take a test later? Shouldn't students who actually stuck it out and tried be rewarded? I do think the GED should be recognized as a completion of an education, but just not as an equal to a real diploma.

    I tend to agree with you. My DH doesn't have either one. His parents allowed several of their 12 kids to quit school. In fact, one sister was allowed to quit high school at 15 to become a nanny for a neighbor. This was NOT the 1800s people! (anyone else find that abnormal? my ILS don't)

    I went to high school, studied and did what I was required to do. I worked hard and took my lumps. My DH, meanwhile, bless him, did get a job, but never finished high school. Why should his GED, if he ever gets one, be considered on the same caliber as a Diploma. Granted some people do have good reasons for not going to school, medical and otherwise, but still, it should not be considered equal. I am not saying I am better than anyone. But it is not the same. In fact, the military used to not consider it the same and some employers don't see it as the same, either.

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    Re: GED's and Diplomas

    No offense to you Mom but Im not a bit suprised you feel that way.

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